Thursday, November 11, 2010

New delights for the boys and girls





[Habitual apologies for another poor show on updating the blog, and thanks to the commentator below who has, rightly of course, accused the blog of ‘dormant’ behaviour. Dormant blog means hectic programme, so we hope we may prevail once again upon the reader’s forgivingness]


Tonnes to tell from Beyrouth: first and foremost, we record, mirabile dictu, the welcome news that Simon (Reiners, who took prime position in blog 1) has booked his flights and is rejoining us at the end of November, following the medical all-clear. The Levantine Coast has received these tidings with delight, rejoices wildly and waits with baited breath for the Caravan fellowship to be reunited.


All driving lessons are now completed and certified by Chamoun, who took tireless pleasure in the teaching (even if his students (Mareike, Ann-Sophie and Antonius) were more lukewarm at 8 in the morning); there’s barely a centre-metre of Beirut (and its vicinity) which they have not covered with the Chamoun School of Driving. Put positively, the car is a vintage (at a pinch “antique”), dove grey specimen of Audi which works. Conversely, bits of it are falling off/disintegrating, passengers are accommodated unglamorously on seats which feel as though you are about to fall through them... and the car now smells of soy sauce due to an unforeseeable domestic accident (thanks due to Ann-Sophie). The car has opened up a wide range of personal liberties, e.g. shopping and collecting rancid paper packages from McDonalds. Marwan, Finger-Charbel and Rashed (some of our boys from Saint Dominique) even had the distinct pleasure of hopping aboard the Audi for a “road-trip” around Deir el Salib, with Mareike/Ann-Sophie at the wheel. I need hardly describe the elation which resulted from this almighty adventure.


In fact, innovations of various kinds have been taking place in the homes where we work. At Deir el Qamar we have honed our programme to take account of the large number of girls with whom we were working: now we take two groups (around 10 each), playing games (not just volleyball, but versions of cricket/baseball, ‘blind man’s bluff’ (can’t imagine what the translation for that is, German-speakers) and other activities which make more demands on their cognitive abilities), singing songs (familiar to all who attended Chabrough) and every week there is a birthday party to devote undivided attention to one girl in particular – this week’s renditions of ‘happy birthday’ were downright bad, but we’re working on it, and Antonius the wandering minstrel even supplies some musical backing on the guitar. The main advantage of this arrangement is of course that we can provide closer, one-on-one attention to the girls.



The birthday party idea has also made it to Deir el Salib where now once a week we take a group of boys out into the garden and celebrate a birthday (regardless of whether or not it is actually their birthday; the scenario more often than not is that the birth date of the boy is inconnu). Raed was the lucky chap this week (who is almost permanently bed-bound) and the provision of birthday cake and songs in the garden made him, needless to say, extremely happy.


On the other side of life: we went camping up in the mountains, almost contracted hypothermia from a near enough glacial river, ate Stockbrot and had an interesting chat with a man and his mule who were passing through. The setting was very beautiful and thanks as always go to Michel who organised it all so well and chose such a marvellous place; nine people, two small tents was, however, a squeezed ratio, particularly given the odd sleep-talking and some quite possessive sleeping habits.



Michel (along with Dr Issa) also organised our latest adventure to the Valley of the Saints (Qadisha) which really was a treat: an enormous valley with on average one monastery every hundred metres; the place is dominated by a kind of holiness which is difficult to describe hors du contexte. We were fortunate enough to walk most of its length and stay in a monastery for Saturday night and even sup with a shepherd whose family (dressed rather incongruously in addidas sports gear and label clothing) prepared and served the most fantastic supper. The drive out of the valley was extraordinary, giving us the chance to look back over what we had walked and to observe this secluded, quiet part of Lebanon which was in olden days a place of refuge for Christians in trouble, the evidence of which still exists so powerfully in the form of caved monasteries and hermitages (one hermit in particular, a Colombian (don’t ask), was not/is never in a socio-interactive mood and seemed more than a little dismayed to see 10 hikers traipsing through his little piece of land; his “yes, welcome” sounded tired and ironic).






The weekend before, most of us went, as a result of Dr Issa’s continual generosity, to Sourat where the doctor has a ‘country residence’. He hosted us magnificently and the visit also gave rise to a lemonade tasting which was apparently top class. A bit of monastery-visiting the next day, mass in the evening at St Joseph’s Church and then Halloween was acknowledged in Gemese with a few tipples and some disgusting (if appropriate) face graffiti (which didn’t quite make it off everyone’s face by Aabla-time the next morning).



Hala Ghoryab very sweetly invited us round for a beachside party at her pad near Damour, just south of Beirut. Perfect sunset, wonderful setting amidst the banana trees, food excellent and, for some, the sea was forgiving enough to allow swimming. So kind, many thanks.


Another point of (dubious) local interest was my birthday last week (if you’ll forgive me for breaking my very ill kept authorial anonymity) which resulted - *completely* without my knowledge – in a surprise party. I am very grateful to be able to use this blog as an opportunity to thank all those who came (and especially of course my Caravanista comrades who organised it). I think I almost suffered a heart-attack when greeted by all those familiar Lebanese/German/Irish faces last Friday and it was a perfect, if unexpected, way to smooth the aging process as I begrudgingly slip into life as a 23 year old. Thank you very much.


That’s about it for this time, except to mention that we have now started at the Université St Joseph and have already had a series of lectures on Lebanese history, now comes the ‘religious bit’ starting with an already entertaining series with Ralph Sleiman (I particularly enjoy his use of ‘Sir’ and ‘Miss’ when answering questions). Nour (our history lecturer) took us on a historical tour of the ‘downtown’ area of Beirut which culminated in a fantastic ice cream session at Chocolat Milano and she also showed us the National Museum which was a joy.


Keep tuning in for more updates – I really must apologise once again for our dismal communications skills, but, in summary, all is going well, we are attempting different, more interesting activities with the boys and girls, our Lebanese friends remain exceedingly generous (this blog, due to constraints, does not even approach a full report of our evening-to-evening activities with our friends out here, on whom we are so dependant) and the weather is lovely. Over and out, for the time being.

Here we are - Better late than never





The Caravan approaches the end of its first month in Beirut: the days have grown shorter, the sea remains tepid, the air warm and close, and the locals even begin to speak of a ‘second summer’. It seems appallingly mismanaged that we have issued only three missives on this blog in that time and that we have to reiterate the apologies which introduced last week’s update. Anyway, apologies aren’t very interesting so let’s get on with what we’ve been up to since our last communication...


Our programme of service at Deir el Qamar and Deir el Salib becomes increasingly second nature. In the case of the girls especially we are now a regular, recognised (and positively received) part of their Monday afternoon. It is, admittedly, exhausting work as we commit ourselves to an (over)active programme of ceaseless volleyball, colouring pictures and, making its debut appearance this week, nail polishing. The girls who sustained this treatment paraded their newly decorated fingers (a seductive brand of Parisian pink), whilst others jealously looked on; their turn will come! The ratio is quite intense: 40 girls to 7 caravanistas, and this accounts mostly for the exhaustion. I keep on making the usual GCSE errors in French as I insist (don’t know why) on addressing each girl as ‘madame’, to which one girl gave (or rather, screamed) the pretty sensible response: ‘Ahh! Je suis mademoiselle! il n’y a pas de madames ici!’ [repeated 10x, as baffled nuns look on].


The main change in dynamic this week was that Nick’s mother and sister were staying in Beirut. They are now hugely impressed witnesses to the work and worth of the Caravan Project. They have visited both the homes at which we work; I took them up to see Sonia (my girl at the camp in Chabrouh) who, for the most part, remains in her bed for the whole day along with many others in their cots. Lydia (sister) found it especially meaningful that they recognise us, shout our names and gain such pleasure from even the most basic interaction. From overwhelming expressions of gratitude and wide-armed hugs through to the last simple, quiet ‘merci’, these are merely an acknowledgement of how valuable our presence is in these homes. Some, of course, cannot even muster a ‘merci’, but then it becomes even more necessary to understand what they are saying inside and perhaps what they wish they could shout out loud. So we send two impressed and admiring visitors back to England. Belinda (mother) simply said: “I am just amazed by all of you and what you do here”.


Our intensive Arabic lessons have now finished and we shift to one lesson a week to keep the language ticking over. Aabla has been a super teacher, delivering three lessons a week up to this point. We have now been introduced to (though few of us have mastered) most of the Arabic letters, have got as far as the past tense of select verbs and I think we know most of the vocabulary for food stuffs (Aabla is very keen to ensure that we can survive the restaurant scenario). Next week university begins and a carefully constructed timetable which covers Middle Eastern socio-politics/religions will begin to unravel.


Kelly Sehnaoui has been especially kind in the past weeks in hosting our ‘film night’ with her fantastic projector: Gosford Park (wonderful piece of English drama with the waspish Maggie Smith at the helm of a superb cast) was much enjoyed, as were the excellent chicken sandwiches and even an interesting pre-film viewing of a Lebanese wedding (Kelly’s elder brother). Very many thanks.


Michel Yanni unleashed the most active part of our programme to date last Saturday with a day of climbing, abseiling and caving up in the mountains, with a nice supper thrown in at the end. Utterly terrifying at times, though the alpha males were happy bunnies, some of the girls less so.





We were all extremely delighted, and moreover lucky, to be able to attend the closing night of Skybar, Beirut’s (indeed the Middle East’s) most popular nightclub. We are greatly indebted to Sheikh Whalid for his characteristic generosity; I don’t think any of us had seen anything quite like it before and the fireworks were astounding.


We have all just this minute returned from a trip with Chamoun (our tireless driver) around the Bekaar Valley, (re)visiting Baalbek, home to the tallest Roman columns, and the best preserved Roman archaeology, in the world and set in an entirely vast, beautiful flood plain (although Baalbek the town is a dump, complete with second-hand ice creams and bad smells), and exploring one of the chief joys of the Bekaar: wine tasting (at Ksara). Stunning views over the valley and Syria in the far distance. A jolly old day, even if the traffic was predictably dire at points.


So back to Deir el Salib tomorrow where we have are currently making such a difference in the ‘small boys room’ (where some of the most severely handicapped, young and near permanently bed-bound cases reside) by playing the guitar and singing: the atmosphere changes completely and one is greeted by those really wonderful, though rare, smiles. Life out here continues to be a really positive balance between uncovering more about Beirut and Lebanon, and working with the boys and girls, from whom we gain so much – and perhaps it is not too much to hope that they gain something from us.